5 Things That Men Want From Women but May be Afraid to Ask!  

1. Don’t just lie there, say something.

It would really be nice if you said something during sex. Scream if you have to but moaning or just talking is just fine. What matters to men, is to know that we are making our woman feel good. Remember that, other than enjoying his own sexual pleasure, a man prides himself in knowing that he is able to sexually satisfy his woman.

2. Initiate sex, sometimes

You have no idea how much men want you to initiate sex and, by that, we mean doing it in earnest not just hinting at sex. Men want you to do as they do – touch, touch some more, caress, kiss and go all the way.

The thing about this is that when you initiate sex, you make them feel wanted and that adds a lot of currency to their self-confidence.

3. Be sexy – for him

Some men would be very pleased if their woman did a skrip tease for them with pole and all. Others would prefer a catwalk or a lap dance. The thing is that all men feel great when their woman does something sexy for them – puts on a sexy dress at home, or indeed, lingerie.

4.He is afraid to ask you to lose weight

It is not like he wants you to look like you are 25, again, but it is just that he has noticed that as your belly continues to bulge, you have stopped asking whether you look fat or not. Not that he is going to be truthful if you asked but, at least, he would know that it bothers you, too.

5. Special bedroom services

Once in a while, for no reason at all, we would like for you to give us a quickie.
Like, just come over, lock the doors, grab the remote control, pull up your dress, straddle us, unzip our trousers, take us inside you and proceed to do us until we come. Then, plant one, big kiss on our mouth, get off and proceed to the kitchen to continue with your mopping.

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5 Single Girls Habits You Need to Drop When You are in a Relationship

I was 21 when my last relationship ended. At the time, I told myself I would focus on my career in the music industry. Online marketing was at its inception and I was leading the charge of getting your favorite rapper onto your computer screen.

But in my personal reality, I was just hiding from some deep-rooted daddy issues and 10 years later, I found myself still single.

It wasn’t my intention to be single for so long. I thought it would only be a few years — that I’d get that corner office and a relationship would become a priority again.

Time flew and eight years later, I got diagnosed with cancer and had to reevaluate my entire life.

I had to decide if I wanted kids and in my head, kids meant a family. Family meant a husband, which meant that I’d have to date with the purpose to settle down for the first time in a really long time.

In those years of being single, I developed some serious single girl habits. When I found myself in a relationship for the first time in 10 years, I had to break those habits so that they wouldn’t break us.

If you’ve been single for a while and are now officially taken, here are some of the single habits you’ll have to break:

THERE’S A DIFFERENCE BETWEEN BEING PHYSICAL AND BEING AFFECTIONATE

Being physical is easy. You find someone attractive, you have a couple of drinks and BOOM, you’re getting physical. Add in some light cuddling to pretend like you actually like each other and then you continue about your own business.

Being affectionate, on the other hand, is hard work; you have to show affection outside of the bedroom. You have to be aware of your partner’s needs and be tender and warm.

Well, warm was not my cup of tea. I had to be constantly reminded to hold his hand when we walked down the street or sit closer to him when we were watching a movie on the couch.

NO, YOU CAN’T KICK HIM OUT OF THE BED

When I first started dating with the intent to settle down, this was one of the hardest habits to break. I LOVE MY SLEEP! And, I couldn’t get enough sleep when someone slept over.

I just wasn’t used to it and it made me feel suffocated. But, how can you be in a relationship without allowing someone to sleep over?

The only way to break this habit is to accept it as your reality. Take a melatonin if you must, but there’s no way to get around this one other than to just get used to it.

CHECKING IN?

That’s what people in relationships do when they’re on a short leash and have to tell their significant others about every move, right? Before my relationship, my idea of checking in consisted of texting back when they asked “WYD?”

Apparently, asking someone about his or her day shows that you care about his or her life. At first, this habit required some practice, but as my relationship matured, so did my stance on checking in.

It’s really just about sharing your day with a person — the person you call when something great happens and the person you lean on when it’s not so great.

NOT EVERY SATURDAY NIGHT HAS TO BE EPIC

Other than when I was sick, I haven’t voluntarily spent a Saturday night at home in years. There was always a party, a date or something else exciting to do on Saturday nights.

The beginning of a relationship is just exciting like that. You go on amazing dates, you come home to amazing sex but then, you get a little comfortable and suddenly, you’ve spent the last few Saturday nights binge-watching “The Sopranos.”

The single girl in me had a really hard time just sitting on the couch. It’s as if life was being lived right outside of my door and I was sitting it out.

I’ve had to learn that it’s ok to spend a Saturday night sitting on the couch. The conversations we have and the bonds we build as a couple are just as exciting.

YOU CAN’T CONTROL EVERYTHING, ESPECIALLY NOT YOUR FEELINGS

I’m a control freak by nature. I started dating with a purpose and that purpose had a deadline attached, so I had to plan.

But, I had to learn that I can’t control everything. I can’t control the timeline, I can’t control my boyfriend and I especially cannot control my feelings.

Relationships have to have fluidity and space to grow. Trying to control the turnout will never end well, so let go of trying to control everything; think less and feel more.

Change is uncomfortable, but if you’re committed to being in a relationship, you must practice these new habits consistently. Creating a new habit takes practice. You have to do it again and again and again, until it becomes something you master. It’s time to master this whole relationship thing.

– Ravid Yosef/EliteDaily

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7 Reasons Girls Love Watching Reality TV

7 Reasons Girls Love Watching Reality TV

Girls love reality television the way that guys (and girls) love sports. While guys may enjoy the unscripted genre too, many girls — myself included — have a passion for reality shows that “Survivor” contestants can’t even compete with. Here’s why we give reality the final rose.

1. The shows are competitive…

The stars don’t have to be competing for money, or even for a man, because everyone on a reality show is competing to be the most interesting, hated, likable, or compelling, ultimately to get the most screen time. Every tactic from backstabbing to streaking is used in this attention-seeking war, and that level of social game is irresistible.

2. …and manipulative

Everyone likes being manipulative when it gets us what we want, but seeing this exaggerated on reality TV reminds us it’s a bad look, while satisfying our craving for a little conniving behavior. (Ironically, we too are being manipulated by the producers, directors and — yep — writers, so it’s not our fault we love it so much.)

3. Voyeurism can be fun

Watching people when you feel like you’re not supposed to has always been a guilty pleasure. In the Journal of Media Psychology, Dr. Lemi Baruh distinguishes “nosy voyeurism” (like watching reality TV) from the more pathological, sexual form of voyeurism. Simply put, watching “Naked and Afraid” doesn’t make you a legitimate Peeping Tom, just a girl with a television.

4. They give us new friends to hate on

The impulse to talk behind someone’s back isn’t always a character flaw. Research shows that our brains are wired for critical gossip. It’s not our fault; it’s evolution’s. If the urge weren’t normal, “fremeny” wouldn’t be a word in the Oxford Dictionary!

Reality shows give us people to talk about behind their backs (unless it’s on social media), as if they were our friends, and it’s a nice way to give our real friends a break.

5. The drama and gossip are infinite

Legal scandals, family feuds and Twitter wars all ensure that our favorite shows never stop; if anything, they just get spinoffs. There’s always plenty of drama to binge on. Us gals sometimes aren’t great about letting go, and with reality TV, we don’t have to.

6. We can multitask

Unlike dramas, reality shows don’t require your undivided attention to enjoy them. For women, the ability to do other things while watching television may be a part of the appeal, because we’re better at multitasking, according to a recent study in the Journal of Biomedical Science Science. If I only watched “Law & Order: SVU,” my laundry would never get folded.

7. They make us feel better about ourselves

While characters on scripted shows can make us feel inadequate, girls look to reality TV for reassurance. Not only does the genre depict real people sometimes not wearing makeup, it showcases all kinds of human inadequacies. When Jessica Simpson asked if tuna was made out of chicken on “Newlyweds,” we all laughed but also recognized our own countless moments of “OMG, what did I just say?”
Taking comfort in the fact that you’re not a Real Housewife, Bachelor contestant or Dance Mom doesn’t make you a hater — it makes you a fan, just like the rest of us.

Do you all agree or not?

By Lauren Vino
Source: MTV News
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The Several Health Benefits of Kissing

Kiss is not only pleasant, but according to some scientific researches, it is also beneficial for health. For example, if you are in a stressful situation, kissing your beloved can help you to calm down and let go of the stress and worry. Kissing can improve one’s mood, relieve stress, reduce pain and even prolong our youth. Let’s get more into details of health benefits of kissing.

First lets find out what ‘kiss’ means? Here is how Encyclopedia Britannica describes this term:

“A touch or caress of the lips upon the lips, cheek, hand, or feet of another to signify affection, greeting, reverence, or physical attraction.”

Now, in many countries cheek kiss is a form of greeting and is considered to be a polite way to say ‘Hello’ (for example, in France, Switzerland and Belgium).

In this article, we will mostly talk about the kiss where two lovers are involved.

According to the ancient authors ‘the kiss is the exchange between two soles’.

When two people passionately kiss, each one of them uses more than 30 facial muscles, which helps blood circulation, involves training of the facial muscles (better than any massage) and thus, prevents the appearance of wrinkles. Conclusion: ladies who want to stay young – kiss more!

Another great and interesting fact for
those who want to lose weight: 2 minutes
of passionate kissing burns about 6 calories, which means if we do it a lot and often, we can get slimmer figure :D. Kissing also boosts the metabolism, which helps to prevent weight gain.

Kissing is very good for teeth. When a person anticipates a kiss, he has the increase of the flow of saliva into the moth and this way, teeth get a plaque-dispersing bath.

Also, people who love kissing and who do it regularly have less problems with insomnia, they are more stable psychologically, than those who don’t have regular kissing in their life.

According to a study, many men take kissing more seriously than just a physicality, because they consider kissing is somehow more about love.

The pleasant process of kissing can also increase life’s expectancy. According to researches, kissing couples live longer and healthier lives, thanks to stronger immune system, they have less age related deceases and plus to all this, their marriage stays strong.

Regular kissers often show themselves more happy, confident and optimistic than people deprived of this pleasant occupation. During the kiss, the body produces ‘the hormone of happiness’, this is why people who love kissing are usually very positive and they achieve their goals easier and quicker.

Kissing can really affect one’s mood for better, the 2 minutes kiss in the morning can make an amazing start of the day.

And let’s finish with a fun fact, according to Guinness World Records, the longest kiss lasted 50 hours, 25 minutes and 1 second and was achieved by Nonthawat Charoenkaesornsin and Thanakorn Sitthiamthong, both are from Thailand on 12-14 February 2012.

– BeautyandTips

By Sister Bimbo
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Wife Caught in the Act of Cheating After Husband Pretended To Be Away On A Business Trip

Have you ever watched the TV show named cheaters where couples get to find out by paying huge amount of money to a private investigator to trail their suspected partner a.k.a cheater in the relationship or marriage?

Mr Amos who had suspected that his wife was cheating decided to be the private investigator by staging a fake business trip.

The woman of Zimbabwe, appeared before judge Tendai Mahwe on Friday, to answer charges of attempted murder after she allegedly burned her husband with hot tea.

The incident occurred during a domestic dispute when the husband caught his wife in a compromising position with another man.
The alleged victim of 1419 Chigutsa Street, Dzivarasekwa 3, was admitted to a hospital with burn wounds.

Prosecutor Sharon Mashavira said that Privilege Amos, poured the hot water over her husband when he confronted her over cheating.

Mr. Amos was alerted about his wife’s cheating by neighbors, who witnessed a strange man coming into his home when he was out of town.

Mr. Amos allegedly pretended to have gone out of town, but then came home at night and caught his wife with her lover in their bed.

Privilege Amos then rushed to the kitchen, grabbed hot tea and poured it over her husband. A police report was made leading to her arrest.

Mrs. Amos was remanded into custody, and so far, no bail has been set for her.

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Men: Is This When You Decided You Don’t Need To Use Condoms Anymore?

1. When you stopped having manners?

Isn’t it enough to get to sleep with a woman? Isn’t it enough that she brought you home? Isn’t it enough that you just met her?

In the age of Snapchat, Pornhub and Tinder, men have become spoiled. And like all spoiled children, they’re unappreciative of the things their parents once found pleasure in.

On the first date, when men used to relish in holding a woman’s hand, they are expecting not just sex, but unprotected sex.

They are expecting women to come off their phone screens, into their beds and onto their laps. They don’t care if you won’t acquiesce to not using a condom because they can find someone who will.

2. When you learned to make excuses?

“Don’t worry, I was tested. I’m clean.”

Do you get tested every week? Do you get tested after every woman you sleep with? Do you have the test results with you? These are the questions we want to ask.

While men may not be lying when they say they’ve been tested, it’s more of an empty truth. Yes, they may have been tested and clean the one time they went, but who’s to say something hasn’t happened since?

If you’re so quick to have sex without a condom with us, how do we know you’re not dropping your pants for everyone else?

The excuses, rationalizations and reasonings are just white noise. It’s just like the buzzing after the bomb. You’re not using a condom and that’s all we need to hear. Everything else is just more bullshit we have to tread through.

3. When you helped create the hook-up culture?

What ever happened to good ol’ fashioned foreplay?  What happened to building towards something? What happened to the marathon? When did it become all about the sprint?

While women are not blameless in the hook-up culture we’ve created, men aren’t helping. By refusing to use a condom, men are validating all our fears that we are indeed, just another hole to them.

This flagrant disregard for their health and our health is only perpetuating the disgusting dating culture we’ve created.

A culture where we no longer get to know one another, spending nights above the sheets and without fear of having to explain why we want you
to use a condom. When you stopped having manners?

Isn’t it enough to get to sleep with
a woman? Isn’t it enough that she brought you home? Isn’t it enough
that you just met her?

In the age of Snapchat, Pornhub and Tinder, men have become spoiled.

And like all spoiled children, they’re unappreciative of the things their parents once found pleasure in.

On the first date, when men used to relish in holding a woman’s hand,
they are expecting not just sex,
but unprotected sex.

They are expecting women to come off their phone screens, into their beds and onto their laps. They don’t care if you won’t acquiesce to not using a c0ndom because they can find someone who will.

When you learned to make excuses?

“Don’t worry, I was tested. I’m clean.”

Do you get tested every week?
Do you get tested after every woman you sleep with? Do you have the test results with you? These are the questions we want to ask.

While men may not be lying when they say they’ve been tested, it’s more of an empty truth. Yes, they may have been tested and clean the one time they went, but who’s to say something hasn’t happened since?

If you’re so quick to have sex without a condom with us, how do we know you’re not dropping your pants for everyone else?

The excuses, rationalizations and reasonings are just white noise.
It’s just like the buzzing after the bomb.

You’re not using a condom and that’s all we need to hear. Everything else is just more bullshit we have to tread through.

When you helped create the hook-up culture?

What ever happened to good ol’ fashioned foreplay?  What happened to building towards something? What happened to the marathon? When did it become all about the sprint?

While women are not blameless in the hook-up culture we’ve created, men aren’t helping. By refusing to use a condom, men are validating all our fears that we are indeed, just another hole to them.

This flagrant disregard for their health and our health is only perpetuating the disgusting dating culture we’ve created.

A culture where we no longer get to know one another, spending nights above the sheets and without fear of having to explain why we want you to use a condom.

Source: Things that You Missed
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Why Searching for a Soul-mate is Fruitless and will Leave you Empty-Handed

Singlehoodvilleburg, USA is a town we’ve all visited. I, for one, happen to be the incumbent mayor who has a very good chance of re-election. Although the city’s population has never been determined, rumors say it is home to more than 75 percent of the world’s citizens.

Some play their cards right and leave forever; others regretfully move back, overcome with disappointment. If you sold your house in The ‘Burg and found happiness in another individual, allow me to congratulate and wish you nothing but continued success. If you haven’t, not to worry.

What I’m about to tell you will surely minimize the constant frustration that comes with the territory and, in return, maximize your chances of finding a suitable mate.

I’m a believer in tough love and anyone who knows me well enough will have no problem telling you I shoot straight from the hip.

I’ll admit this has gotten me in trouble plenty of times, but honesty is still the best policy. For that reason, I will speak the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth:

THE REASON YOU HAVEN’T BEEN ABLE TO FIND THE ONE IS BECAUSE HE OR SHE DOESN’T EXIST.

When we utter the words “the one,” we can’t help but picture a flawless utopia in our heads. In his book, “Winning Ugly,” former tennis pro and coach Brad Gilbert explains, “When we chase perfection, we’re chasing a myth.” As a result, we’re constantly swimming in a sea of disappointment that grows deeper with each failed relationship.

You have a better chance of winning the lottery three times in a row than finding your perfect match.

As a hopeless romantic, I know what it’s like to aim for the sky and come up empty-handed, time after time. Like you, I know what heartbreak feels like, and yes, I, too, question whether or not I’ll attain what I yearn to have.

The root of the term “relationship” is “relate” and, in this day and age, we lose that very important skill as days pass. Fewer people are willing to relate to their partners in ways only they can because they are becoming increasingly emotionally lazy. This can lead to indifference, which is a relationship killer.

Attention, interest and desire all suffer the consequences of your actions or lack thereof. If you want to be part of a successful relationship, you must be willing and able to invest the effort required to make it work, regardless of any obstacle that stands in your way.

When couples tell me they’ve been fighting over petty arguments, I tell them they shouldn’t be concerned one bit. The real worry is when there’s nothing over which to fight.

Contrary to popular belief, relationships are not 50/50, they’re 100/100. The inability to provide your partner with a solid foundation will set you up for failure, even before you take life’s journey together.

You wouldn’t board the Titanic knowing what you know now, would you? Neither would I.

Here’s my advice: Stop sulking in a corner and tormenting yourself with the expectation of finding love if you won’t make the necessary changes in your life.

Let me save you the suspense: Earth has more than 7 billion inhabitants. Do you really think your true love just happened to be sitting down at the local bar this weekend, waiting for you to show up and buy him or her a drink? Do you really believe you’ll just run into a complete stranger, hit it off and the rest will be history?

Do you buy into the notion that couples who have been married for 40 years haven’t endured a single obstacle? Not a chance. With that said, it’s time to turn that frown upside down.

Now that I’ve given you the bad news in a nutshell, here’s the good news: Through hard work and dedication, you can create your own soul mate. It’s all fun and games until you realize what it takes for love to truly blossom.

Even Ryan Gosling and Rachel McAdams’ characters in “The Notebook” wanted to kill each other from time to time, but it was their unconditional love for one another that made their bond stronger. They never gave up on themselves, which is the attitude you must adopt moving forward so the probability of living life by someone’s side increases dramatically.

Chances are, you’ve actually come across someone who could have made you happy. If you apply my theory, odds are you didn’t even notice because the work ethic just wasn’t there.

Nothing worth having in this life comes easily. Put up a fight for who and what you love.

– Francisco Alvarez/EliteDaily

By Sister Bimbo 
Source: RADAR NG
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