Men: Is This When You Decided You Don’t Need To Use Condoms Anymore?

1. When you stopped having manners?

Isn’t it enough to get to sleep with a woman? Isn’t it enough that she brought you home? Isn’t it enough that you just met her?

In the age of Snapchat, Pornhub and Tinder, men have become spoiled. And like all spoiled children, they’re unappreciative of the things their parents once found pleasure in.

On the first date, when men used to relish in holding a woman’s hand, they are expecting not just sex, but unprotected sex.

They are expecting women to come off their phone screens, into their beds and onto their laps. They don’t care if you won’t acquiesce to not using a condom because they can find someone who will.

2. When you learned to make excuses?

“Don’t worry, I was tested. I’m clean.”

Do you get tested every week? Do you get tested after every woman you sleep with? Do you have the test results with you? These are the questions we want to ask.

While men may not be lying when they say they’ve been tested, it’s more of an empty truth. Yes, they may have been tested and clean the one time they went, but who’s to say something hasn’t happened since?

If you’re so quick to have sex without a condom with us, how do we know you’re not dropping your pants for everyone else?

The excuses, rationalizations and reasonings are just white noise. It’s just like the buzzing after the bomb. You’re not using a condom and that’s all we need to hear. Everything else is just more bullshit we have to tread through.

3. When you helped create the hook-up culture?

What ever happened to good ol’ fashioned foreplay?  What happened to building towards something? What happened to the marathon? When did it become all about the sprint?

While women are not blameless in the hook-up culture we’ve created, men aren’t helping. By refusing to use a condom, men are validating all our fears that we are indeed, just another hole to them.

This flagrant disregard for their health and our health is only perpetuating the disgusting dating culture we’ve created.

A culture where we no longer get to know one another, spending nights above the sheets and without fear of having to explain why we want you
to use a condom. When you stopped having manners?

Isn’t it enough to get to sleep with
a woman? Isn’t it enough that she brought you home? Isn’t it enough
that you just met her?

In the age of Snapchat, Pornhub and Tinder, men have become spoiled.

And like all spoiled children, they’re unappreciative of the things their parents once found pleasure in.

On the first date, when men used to relish in holding a woman’s hand,
they are expecting not just sex,
but unprotected sex.

They are expecting women to come off their phone screens, into their beds and onto their laps. They don’t care if you won’t acquiesce to not using a c0ndom because they can find someone who will.

When you learned to make excuses?

“Don’t worry, I was tested. I’m clean.”

Do you get tested every week?
Do you get tested after every woman you sleep with? Do you have the test results with you? These are the questions we want to ask.

While men may not be lying when they say they’ve been tested, it’s more of an empty truth. Yes, they may have been tested and clean the one time they went, but who’s to say something hasn’t happened since?

If you’re so quick to have sex without a condom with us, how do we know you’re not dropping your pants for everyone else?

The excuses, rationalizations and reasonings are just white noise.
It’s just like the buzzing after the bomb.

You’re not using a condom and that’s all we need to hear. Everything else is just more bullshit we have to tread through.

When you helped create the hook-up culture?

What ever happened to good ol’ fashioned foreplay?  What happened to building towards something? What happened to the marathon? When did it become all about the sprint?

While women are not blameless in the hook-up culture we’ve created, men aren’t helping. By refusing to use a condom, men are validating all our fears that we are indeed, just another hole to them.

This flagrant disregard for their health and our health is only perpetuating the disgusting dating culture we’ve created.

A culture where we no longer get to know one another, spending nights above the sheets and without fear of having to explain why we want you to use a condom.

Source: Things that You Missed
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FROM Da SOURCE by lnvisiblε NεtωorK™

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